Various questions we frequently get about sending mail to other members with our dating system. This section also includes other questions about receiving email from other members.
- May I contact other members?
- I don’t want to receive a notification to my email address when I get new mail
- I am not receiving any messages from other people
- Nobody responds to my messages
- Someone sent a message that offended me
- How many people should I contact
May I contact other members?
Yes, you sure can! NaijaLove.com.ng is 100% free, and you’re welcome to send messages to other members at no cost.
I don’t want to receive a notification to my email address when I get new mail
To turn off email alerts:
- Log in to your account.
- Click or tap on Profile.
- Go to Basic Details.
- Scroll down to Email Notification Settings and turn them off.
I am not receiving any messages from other people
If you’re a man, it’s normal to get fewer messages unless you’re reaching out first. Even today, many women still prefer that men make the first move. Try sending messages to many people that fits your requirements in a match – you’ll boost your chances of having great conversations!
If you’re a woman, don’t be shy about messaging men first. These days, it’s totally fine for women to take the lead too!
Always make sure:
- You’ve uploaded at least one photo. It will attract more attention to your profile.
- Your profile feels friendly, warm, and welcoming.
Nobody responds to my messages
It’s completely normal to feel a little down when you don’t get a reply. But don’t worry, there are many reasons why someone might not respond.
Sometimes, it’s just about timing. People might be busy or receive lots of messages and simply can’t reply to everyone. Other times, they may be looking for something different, and that’s okay too!
To help boost your chances of getting a response, make sure your dating profile is complete, friendly, and welcoming. A warm, genuine profile makes a great first impression!
And don’t forget to add at least one clear photo of yourself. Fun or interesting pictures can help spark a conversation and catch someone’s eye.
Someone sent a message that offended me
If someone sends you a message that makes you feel uncomfortable or offended, it’s easy to block them.
Just go to their profile and click “Block Him” or “Block Her.” Once someone is blocked, they won’t be able to see your profile or contact you again. You’ll be completely invisible to them.
How can I retrieve messages that I deleted from my Inbox or Outbox
Right now, there isn’t a way to restore deleted messages. We know this can be frustrating, and we’re working on improving our system all the time. This feature might become available in the future as NaijaLove.com.ng grows.
How many people should I contact
Online dating is a bit of a numbers game – the more people you reach out to, the more chances you have of finding someone special!
You can take it slow and message a few people at a time, or go a bit faster and chat with more people. There’s no right or wrong way to do it – it all depends on what feels best for you.