How To Stay Safe While Online Dating

Online dating is very popular today. It's helped millions of people connect, fall in love, and even build families. Meeting someone special has never been easier.

What makes online dating so easy also has the potential to make it risky. Not everyone is online for love. Some are there to scam, manipulate, or harm others. And that’s something we take very seriously here at NaijaLove.com.ng.

We’ve put together some important safety tips to help you stay protected while finding your perfect match. Please read them carefully because your own personal safety always comes first - no exceptions.

Fraud Awareness

Here’s what you should NEVER do when dating online:

• Never share your personal or financial info with anyone.
• Never send money to someone you met online - even if their story sounds convincing.
• Never give out your credit card or banking details.
• Never share your full name or phone number too soon. Wait until you’ve built strong trust.

Use NaijaLove.com.ng’s anonymous messaging system

Only start revealing personal info after getting to know the person better. Remember that in the beginning, you're chatting with a total stranger.

Our system keeps your private details hidden, so use it. It's there to help you stay safe while you get to know someone at your own pace.

Block and report suspicious behavior

If someone treats you badly, makes you uncomfortable, or asks for money, block them. Right away. Don’t wait.

Also, report it to us. If we see a pattern or find good reason, we’ll suspend their account. We’ve got your back.

Trust your gut

If something feels off, it probably is. Watch out for these red flags:

• Their photos look fake or too polished.
• Their personality seems scary or off-putting.
• They’re secretive, pushy, or lie about things.

If your instincts say “nope,” listen. That little voice inside you is often spot on.

Safety Tips When Meeting Offline

Meeting in person is exciting, but it should also be done with your own safety in mind. Here's how to protect yourself on that first date:

• Meet in public. Choose busy places like cafés or restaurants. Never go to private or remote locations.
• Tell a friend. Let someone know where you’re going and when. Share your date’s name and location.
• Keep your phone on you. Always. Make sure it’s fully charged too.
• Stay sober. Don’t let anything impair your judgment. Stay sharp, stay safe.
• Guard your stuff. Don’t leave your phone, bag, or drink unattended.
• Watch your food and drink. Always keep it with you to avoid tampering.
• Stay public. Don’t go home with your date or invite them to your place on the first meeting.
• Don’t tolerate pressure. If someone pushes your boundaries, leave immediately.
• Be aware after the date. If you think you're being followed, go straight to the nearest police station. No hesitation.